Humbled

I am feeling so humbled this morning. I took my boys to High Tech (their school) and its been several days in a row that Aidan's teacher has come to talk to me about how great he is. At first you say "Thanks", because compliments are music to a mothers ears, but as the days passed I wasn't sure what to say anymore. Today she came up to me and enthusiastically said, "I just want you to know that Aidan is such a fantastic kid. He is so conscientious of others, without being asked he helps this boy who has splints on his legs- Aidan carries his back pack for him, rides with him in the elevator before and after school, he even brings him a chair during circle time since he can not sit comfortably on the rug. He is such an asset to our class!" In that moment as we stood for a brief second in silence I thought I am standing before greatness. They have been in school for over a week now and though he has mentioned this child he has not mentioned, or bragged, or boasted about helping him especially for recognition. His kind sweet spirit is pure and loving.... I feel inadequate, at times, being my boys mother. Boys are boys but when you see their true character, when you catch a glimpse of how amazing they are one is left in awe. Its difficult to capture the spirit of that moment, its not even coming out right as I type it now. I just looked at Aidan with different eyes. We have had the most difficult year financially and emotionally and when he or any of my kids would have every reason to misbehave or fall apart or just be numb ( since tensions and stress have been so high) especially now at a new school where they don't know anyone they surprise me by THRIVING and being not only a good example to others but to ME. Oh I love love LOVE my boys and I am eternally grateful to have them in my life. As a mother you often teach your children correct principles but whether they apply it or not is completely up to them particualry when you are not around. This piece of good news had nothing to do with me and everyting to do with him. I am so grateful. Thanks boys for being so great!